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John Mackintosh's avatar

I have to thank you Mark. If I’ve ever needed some positive reinforcement that being married, despite the up and downs, was a blessing. Your experiences have turned me more thankful than I could ever have imagined!

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Mark V Smallwood's avatar

Well John, who knew I had a future as a marriage guidance counsellor? Happy to help you count your blessings - even if it’s by sharing my disaster stories!

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Veronica Llorca-Smith's avatar

Mark, your dating stories are the best. There's drama, shock, intrigue, laughter, tears...

I know you are busy with your 2 books but I would definitely add to the list a third:

"50 Shades of Dating" or something, lol.

Your writing style is very captivating, I couldn't wait to get to the end.

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Mark V Smallwood's avatar

Thank you so much! I’m genuinely grateful for all the encouragement—it means a lot.

You’ve definitely given me something to think about with ‘50 Shades of Dating’—a 2025 project, perhaps? Who knows,

I might even rope in a few female writers to share their own tales of dating disasters!

Thanks again for your kind words; I’m thrilled you enjoyed the stories!

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Wendy Martin's avatar

Yes, I know a woman that can match you chapter by chapter. It would make a terrific book. 🦕

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Mark V Smallwood's avatar

If it’s not you, please introduce us! If it is you, let’s chat 😎

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Mark V Smallwood's avatar

Thank you Stephen … I’m beginning to feel ‘living vicariously’ may be my best option!

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Mark V Smallwood's avatar

I can’t be the only one this sort of thing happens to!

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Wendy Martin's avatar

No, Mark, it happens to me, too, as you have read. I’m printing out your three rules, even though I am no longer dating. I think they fit regular relationships, too.

Great story! 🦕

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Mark V Smallwood's avatar

I guess we’re just lucky Wendy 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️ … thanks for your kind words .. I hope the rules prove useful and I’m looking forward to the conclusion of your ‘black gums’ story.

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Mark V Smallwood's avatar

‘Cold sweats’ here, simply remembering it all Hazel!

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